Holly Jolly Vintage Christmas Series Post 2: My Memories

I was born late November in 1957. As a very little girl, I have vague memories of us going to downtown Pittsburgh to view the stores decorated and lit up for the holidays. I suppose that is what you did then, before the malls were built.

There are not too many images on the Net of these stores back then….I found one here though I am not sure of the decade.   ( from the  SOURCE  it appears to be the early 60’s)

I don’t recall doing this too many times..maybe twice at the most, and after that, any ‘retail’ memories were of a local mall…when it was new, it was a source of wonder at Christmas time :)

We lived with my grandparents until I was three. My grand-aunt Ruth’s place was next door. This was in Munhall, a suburb of Pittsburgh…but it was mostly country then. Ruth’s place had grapevines, rabbits, ( I later learned her husband grew them for science experiments! Thank goodness I was shielded from that as a child ) beehives, and strawberry fields. They grew and sold strawberries in the early summer.

Holiday dinners were there and I have vague memories of a long long table ( probably several pushed together ) with white cloths, and many many people gathered around, with snow falling outdoors.

This is a picture of me when I was around 2 or 3 years old, dressed up for Christmas, in front of a little cupboard that my grandfather had made for me. I remember naming that doll “Barbara” and notice the plastic on the furniture ? I recall that the seats in their black Ford were covered in plastic as well :) either 2 or 3 years old My parents bought property out in the country in a different area, and not long after that my grandparents purchased the acre next to them and built a home there. I remember being so sad when we left my grandparents home…along with leaving Ruth’s place, theirs was an idyllic setting for a child. My grandfather had a goldfish pond with a little bridge, there was a creek at the back of the property, and the neighbors had a pet crow. Sadly, Ruth died the next year. I remember crying and crying because I loved her so..

Here is an old picture of my grandfather building a replica of that house in Munhall.

bup building replica of house on wayman road

Well, back to Christmas memories. Once we were settled in our new house, a small ranch house on a acre of land, most Christmas memories blur together because we did the same thing every year. And that is how traditions go, I suppose :)

We probably did not have a T.V until I was around 6 or 7 years old, and then it was a small black and white one in my parent’s bedroom.  I think that we watched just a few shows a week…such as “Bewitched” so commercials were far and few between…the only thing to entice a young child was the Sears Wish Book. I would peruse that for hours at a time.  Shopping at anywhere but the grocery store was rare…so there was never the constant in-your-face toys and games etc., that our children see now. SOURCE ( Image Below ) 

Aside from The Wish Book, the other exciting publication that came in the mail was the Ideals Magazine. On a recent visit to my mom’s house, I unearthed some Ideals book that she had, that was a compilation of various Ideals articles over the years, and I was instantly transported back to my childhood because I remembered one of those and had loved it as a child. I took some pictures with my phone and that is what inspired this memories post, for the most part :)

Basically, the Christmas season started with Advent. There was an Advent wreath in the center of the table, with red candles. When the first candle was lit, on a Sunday evening at dinner time, the Season began.   SOURCE    I did this with my boys when they were young

as well.

 

Please understand…back then, in my situation at least, there were only three times a year …Christmas, your birthday ( very little ) and back-to-school…that you were ever going to GET anything. I am not counting Easter because that was just a small basket and maybe some new church dress or shoes, but don’t count on that.  Nope, just three times a year and Christmas was the biggest.

I recall almost holding my breath when the first candle of the Advent wreath was lit, because the magical season had begun. It had started earlier in church, when we started singing the Christmas hymns, and it was just going to get better now throughout the month.

After that, there were the decorations…the mantel had a magical scene of Christmas houses and elves and reindeer. The dry sink had a beautiful nativity scene. There was a choir of angels that were made of candles. I later saw a similar set in an antique store priced far above my budget!

Church became fun ( sort of ) due to the beautiful hymns and Christmas programs, etc. I had to do a piano solo in church when I was in 4th grade and will never forget the sheer terror of that…

At some point about 2 weeks prior to Christmas the live tree ( back then they must have been more alive than now, because the entire house was infused with the scent of pine ) went up, along with a platform underneath that housed a village and Lionel train.  My grandfather had built a folding wooden fence that went all around the platform, and while there was a church and some houses, he also built a log cabin. I would lay on the floor and play with the skiers and ice skaters, and later when I had my own children, I took the antique figurines with me and re-created that Christmas scene under my tree when they were little.  While I don’t have all of that now ( nor the room for it ) I do put a few of the ice skaters out along with some decorations on the children’s train table upstairs.

The cookies baked at our house were the kind that children could participate in …sugar cookie cut-outs, butter balls ( which we rolled in sprinkles, versus confectioner’s sugar ) and fudge.

My grandmother next door always had Toll House cookies for us throughout the year but at Christmas time she made the fancy kinds…many different varieties.

Was tissue paper cheaper or more common than colored wrapping paper back then ? I don’t know, but my mom always wrapped all of the presents in white paper or white tissue paper, and then put little stickers all over them. The living room appeared to be a sea of white presents on Christmas morning.

We had dinner at my grandparents, and my aunt and uncle and cousins came for that. There would be ‘table gifts’ placed on the children’s plates. Little pencils…simple things like that,  but special at the time. They held us over until we could exchange gifts in my grandparents living room after dinner.

My grandfather had a racetrack that he only brought out at Christmas time and this amused us children as well. I do not recall having alot of toys as a child…not like children have today. Our Barbies rode around on books, and half of their clothes were made up of old scarves and such. The sea of presents that I recall as a child most likely was much smaller than what our children receive today and many of those presents would have been books and puzzles and board games, to last throughout the year.

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16 Responses to Holly Jolly Vintage Christmas Series Post 2: My Memories

  1. Sharon says:

    My husband and I were just commenting the other day on the only time we got presents were birthday and Christmas. We were both born in 1958. Your family sounds close-knit like mine was. My Grandparents lived next door too. I remember shopping in Elmore’s Five & Dime and Ben Franklin’s Dime Store. For presents I usually got a baby doll or Barbie. I remember the Christmas(1968) before my mom died I got quite a lot. A Penny Doll, a Candy fashion doll and a stuffed monkey holding a banana. Now my whole family is gone, but we have all those lovely memories. P.S I also have several of my mom and grandmother’s Ideal books. I also have an Easter one. I have loved sharing memories with you.

  2. I love the picture of you in your black velvet dress! And your doll was tall!

    So much of what you wrote about was similar to my memories even though I was born in the 40s. Things really were so much simpler then. Christmas definitely was. I don’t think we even began getting ready for Christmas until a week or so before. I do remember the stores in uptown Nashville having wonderful Christmas windows with animated figures. People would stand in front of them to watch and the store played Christmas music on loudspeakers for outside.

    I love the house your grandfather made. Wouldn’t you love to still have it today? Men used to have hobbies like that. Again, maybe because t.v. didn’t take up so much of their time?

    I enjoyed your look back in time. And your grandchildren will someday have this as a record.

  3. I loved reading this Deborah. What is it about this time of year that makes us feel nostalgic? Being born in 1954, I can relate to much of what you wrote.

    What I remember most about Christmas as a child was two things…our house was decorated so beautifully and was by far the prettiest in the neighborhood if I do say so myself, but I also remember my friends always seemed to get tons of presents but my sister and I got maybe one or two and I felt badly about that at the time. Silly, right.!

  4. Eileen says:

    Cute post and wonderful memories. I love your old family photos, very nice. Thanks for sharing, have a happy week!

  5. Thank you, thank you, thank you for this post! You see, I was born in 1984, but I am fairly certain that I should have been born about thirty years earlier. I love reading about things of yesteryear, especially holidays! Loved this!

  6. Peggy Thal says:

    Sweet memories! Love that Wish BooK ! I remember that time frame too. Thanks for sharing.

  7. Thanks for sharing your memories. For sure Christmas was different then from what it is like now. It’s fun to think back.

  8. Debbie says:

    So many of your memories are close to mine. We are extremely close in age and my childhood memories are similar. Although many wonderful inventions that make our lives richer and healthier, I long for a time when children were happy with so little and were not brought up with the expectations of having everything right now. The mentality of wait, save, and buy is gone. The anticipation is no longer there. We have become such a society of make-me-happy-right-now. I try very hard to raise my last two children with simple beliefs and it works when we are in our home, but difficult anywhere else. I am truly enjoying your glimpse into the past!!

  9. Laura says:

    I am seven years older than you and have many of the same memories. I loved when the Sears catalog came. We looked at it for hours. Wonderful memories. xo Laura

  10. Love your post even if I now realize I’m ‘relatively’ older than you. :-) I was talking to my grandkids about the Sears catalog the other day because my granddaughter at 12 can’t remember that she actually sat for long periods of time and marked toys that she wanted. Shopping today is not near as much fun because everything wanted needs a charger or goes into something with a charger.

  11. Oh what precious memories. Love them. Thanks so much for linking to Inspire Me. Hugs, marty

  12. Amy says:

    This was such a treat, to read about your Christmas memories! I was not overloaded with toys, either, as a kid, and was perfectly content! I wish that today’s kids could take a trip back in time to understand that they don’t “need” all the toys that they want/have.

  13. Grandma Kc says:

    This was just beautiful and I loved reading about the Christmases of your childhood. Things have certainly changed but I think children still get a lot of joy out of hours with a catalog. Amara and the American Girl catalog and my great niece who is 5 spent all of last weekend with the current Sears catalog — I think it was Sears!

  14. Ginabeth Young says:

    I was born in 1954, and your memories are so similar to mine. Your hair cut looks just like mine looked, those short bangs. The Sears catalogue, trees. My sister and I never got Barbie dolls so you were so lucky. I actually think there was only white tissue paper until the 60s. I remember using freezer paper too and the stickers, also. We went to Nashville once a year to buy clothes for school. But we were already in school and went when the stores were open late on Friday night. Thanks for the great trip down memory lane.

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